A sex tool such as a blow job sex toy can help you to get more orgasms in a sexual relationship, whether you’re playing alone or with someone else. But with so many options, knowing which toy is right for you can be intimidating.
If you are ready to explore the world of vibrators and toys, look for a toy which targets your erogenous areas. You can buy one in sex shops or online. Some retailers also sell toys that are packaged discreetly.
Clitoral Vibration Toys
The newest additions to the vibrator world, suction toys (or clitsuckers) simulate the sensation of oral sex. They are discreetly packaged and have a slim, discreet design. These clit-focused sex toys are especially popular for people with vulvas, as they can be used alone or during intercourse to stimulate the clitoris, vagina, and labia, or even other erogenous zones like the nipples. These toys are marketed in a cool, calm way, proving that carnal enjoyment doesn’t have to be loud or overtly sexual.
The best thing about clitoral toys is that most of them are quiet. They’re perfect for using at home, out in public or on the road. These toys are often water-proof and can be used in a variety of ways. Whether you’re looking for a beginner clitoral toy or something that will take your sex game to the next level, we have you covered with this roundup of some of our favorite sex toys that are sure to deliver.
Clitoral wands are sometimes called “wands” and are larger in size. They look like a large microphone. They provide a full clitoral stimulation. You can use these on your partner to have a more intimate experience, or you can add some lubricant for a really hot play.
A toy that’s both a clitoral suction toy and a penetrative stroker in one, the Purple Pleasure is perfect for bringing added excitement to intimate moments with your partner. Its curved silicone body provides intense clitoral stimulation by pressing the pointed tip against the vulva. The internal arm of this toy rotates and thrusts as well, adding a sensual element when it is pressed against the vulva.
This versatile clitoral stimulation toy, designed by the female pioneers of pleasure at Smile Makers is a necessity for trans and nonbinary individuals who require a clitoral stimulusator. The nub of the toy is designed to focus on the pleasure button, spreading vibrations throughout the body. Its wings can be used for a more intense sensation by teasing other erogenous areas like the labia and nipples. The toy has four speeds and two pulsation settings, so you can customize your stimulation. Use a lot of lube.
Erogenous Zone Vibration Toys
Erogenous zones are sensitive areas of the body that feel good when stimulated. These areas may be clitoral or vaginal or internal (like anus or rectum) or perineal. Vibrators can be used to stimulate these zones as well. Many people use their hands to stimulate these areas. Vibrators can be used to open up new options for couples, since these zones are difficult to reach with the hands.
The Bellesa Thrust is a toy designed to target erogenous areas in a unique manner. This vibe features a curved design to help users find their G-spot. The external shaft and internal arm offer different pulsing and thrusting rhythms. It’s compatible with silicone lubricant to make it even smoother. The toy’s flaws were found by testers. It is louder and buzzier than Lush 2 and 3, and it sometimes stops thrusting.
The Dame Arc is another toy that aims at addressing the issue of limited movement in the anal region. This toy is a dual-stimulating vibrator that features an external shaft and an internal arm with rotating beads. It is made of medical-grade silicone, and can be bent to any angle. With a click, you can cycle between 10 vibration speeds and pulse patterns. It comes with an included pouch for easy storage, and charges via USB.
Other erogenous zone toys include the rabbit vibrators that went majorly viral on TikTok, and which offer dual stimulation for clitoral and internal orgasms. Goop’s popular wand vibrate has two independent ends which can be pressed on the clitoris, or inserted into the vaginal canal for different sensations. It’s made from medical-grade Silicon and has eight different pulsing patterns. It can also be used with a cock or in water.
Another option is a penis sleeve or extender, which is placed on the tip of your penis and then hooked to an anchor that fits around the testicles. These devices come in various styles, some of which look realistic and others that don’t even resemble a penis. These sex instruments require some assembly, but they can be used to stimulate both the clitoral and the anal regions.
Bullet Vibration Toys
If you are a beginner or prefer to keep things simple, the bullet vibe is an excellent place to begin. Small, petite, and easy to maneuver, these toys are perfect for spicing up a solo sesh, or bringing out the magic when you’re using a clitoral toy with your lover. You can also use a bullet to stimulate the G-spot when you are doing anal play or doggy style.
Bullet vibes are available in a variety materials, including ABS plastic or body-safe silicone. They can be shaped differently. Some are rounded like pills, while others might have an egg or lipstick shape. They’re also not always phallic, making them a great choice for lesbians.
Be sure to read the instructions before purchasing a bullet vibrate. This will give you an idea of how the toy is used and if it is compatible with any attachments or accessories. Some vibrators have remote controls or apps that allow you to control them with your phone or another device. Some vibrators have two tips, so you can use one to stimulate your partner while using the other. This can be especially fun during penetrative sex, when you want to explore different clitoral and erogenous zones.
After you’ve found the perfect bullet, make sure to store it safely! After use, many of these toys can fit in your handbag or sex-toy pouch. It’s a good idea also to remove the toy from the charger and store the toy somewhere other than the battery.
Butt Plugs
Butt plugs, as their name suggests, target the anus. It is a sensitive area which can produce its own pleasure, or heighten sensations experienced in other parts during play. They can be worn alone or layered over other erogenous areas. They’re a great way for people to warm up and prepare for anal sex.
A butt plug with a flared bottom is the best choice for beginners. This prevents the plug from slipping into the anal canal which can cause irritation and even pain. Some plugs even have an egg-shaped penetrating portion that targets the prostatic area. This type of plug can be very enjoyable for men and woman with prostates, or people who have vaginas without penises.
Ultimately, it’s up to the user to decide how intense they want their anal play to be. Beginners can choose a simple, inexpensive plug with a comfortable fit and easy-to-clean surface. Try something with more bells and whistles, like a powerful vibration that has 15 vibration settings, or a textured tip.
